There is something undeniably heartwarming about watching a dog trot down the aisle at a wedding. More and more couples across the UK are choosing to include their four-legged family members in the biggest day of their lives, and it is easy to see why. Whether your dog is serving as ring bearer, aisle escort, or simply the most photogenic guest in attendance, their presence adds a warmth and spontaneity that no amount of planning can manufacture. From barn weddings in the Cotswolds to country house celebrations in Yorkshire, dogs are becoming a cherished part of the British wedding scene.
Of course, if your dog is going to be in the wedding photos (and let's be honest, they will steal every single one), they need to look the part. That is where a well-chosen bow tie comes in. A wedding bow tie transforms your dog from beloved pet into a distinguished member of the wedding party. It is a small detail that makes a big visual impact, and with the right choice of fabric, colour, and pattern, your dog can complement the wedding theme beautifully. If you are new to dog bow ties, our complete dog bow ties guide covers everything from sizing to styling for every occasion.
At Bailey and Coco, we have spent years designing bow ties that look exceptional and feel comfortable for dogs of all breeds and sizes. Our wedding-ready collection features premium tweeds, sophisticated tartans, and timeless patterns that pair perfectly with suits, kilts, and everything in between. Starting from just £6, dressing your dog for the occasion does not need to break the bank. This guide covers everything you need to know about choosing, fitting, and styling a wedding bow tie for your dog, along with practical advice for making the whole day run smoothly.
Why Include Your Dog in Your Wedding?
Weddings are a celebration of love and family, and for millions of us in the UK, our dogs are very much part of that family. Including your dog in your wedding is not just a trend; it is a reflection of the bond you share and the role they play in your everyday life. After all, they were there through every date night, every house move, and every lazy Sunday morning. Why would you leave them out of the biggest celebration of all?
From a practical standpoint, dogs can take on a range of roles at a wedding. The most popular is the ring bearer, where your dog carries the rings down the aisle on a small cushion or pouch attached to their collar. It is a crowd-pleasing moment that guarantees smiles and the occasional happy tear. Others choose to have their dog walk the bride or groom down the aisle, adding a deeply personal touch to the procession. Even if your dog is simply present for the ceremony and photographs, their involvement creates memories that you will treasure for years.
There is also the undeniable photography factor. Professional wedding photographers will tell you that some of the most loved images from any dog-friendly wedding are the candid shots of the dog. Whether it is a Labrador yawning during the vows, a Cockapoo posing with the bridesmaids, or a French Bulldog stealing canapés during the reception, these are the photographs that end up framed on the mantelpiece. A smart bow tie ensures your dog looks as polished and put-together as the rest of the wedding party, turning every candid moment into a picture-perfect one.
The trend of dogs at UK weddings has grown significantly over the past few years, with many venues now offering specific dog-friendly wedding packages. Some even provide dog sitters on site, water stations, and designated outdoor areas for your pup to relax between duties. The cultural shift towards recognising pets as genuine family members means that having your dog at your wedding is no longer seen as unusual; it is celebrated.
Choosing the Perfect Wedding Bow Tie
Selecting the right bow tie for your dog's wedding outfit is more than just picking a colour you like. The best wedding bow ties complement the overall theme, coordinate with the wedding party, and most importantly, keep your dog comfortable throughout the day. Here is how to get it right.
Match the Wedding Theme
Your wedding has a mood, a palette, and a style. Your dog's bow tie should reflect all three. Think of it the same way you would choose a pocket square for the groomsmen or accessories for the bridal party.
For rustic and country weddings, tweed is the obvious choice. The texture and warmth of tweed speaks to barn venues, wildflower arrangements, and that quintessentially British countryside aesthetic. Our Heritage Plaid and Forest Tweed patterns are particularly popular for rural celebrations, offering rich, earthy tones that sit beautifully against natural backdrops. If your wedding is at a farm, a country estate, or a converted barn, tweed will feel completely at home.
For classic and formal weddings, you want something a little more refined. Charcoal Tweed offers a sophisticated, understated look that pairs brilliantly with dark suits and traditional morning dress. Mulberry Tweed adds a touch of colour without being overpowering, making it an excellent choice for elegant venues such as stately homes, grand hotels, and traditional churches. These patterns are smart enough to hold their own alongside the sharpest tailoring.
For fun and colourful weddings, do not be afraid to go bold. Patterned prints, bright tartans, and vibrant fabrics can reflect a more relaxed, contemporary wedding style. If your colour scheme features lavender, duck egg blue, or blush pink, look for bow ties that pick up those accent colours. Our Lavender Tweed is a favourite for spring and summer weddings, offering a soft, romantic tone that photographs beautifully in natural light.
| Wedding Theme | Recommended Bow Tie | Why It Works |
|---|---|---|
| Rustic / Country | Heritage Plaid, Forest Tweed | Earthy tones complement barn and outdoor venues |
| Classic / Formal | Charcoal Tweed, Mulberry Tweed | Understated elegance pairs with morning dress and dark suits |
| Spring / Summer Garden | Lavender Tweed | Soft romantic colour perfect for outdoor ceremonies |
| Scottish / Tartan | Tartan bow ties | Ideal for kilt-wearing grooms and Highland venues |
| Modern / Colourful | Patterned prints, bold fabrics | Reflects a relaxed, contemporary celebration style |
Coordinate with the Wedding Party
One of the most striking looks you can achieve is having your dog's bow tie coordinate with the rest of the wedding party. This does not mean an exact match; it means picking up on the key colours and textures that tie the whole look together.
If the groom is wearing a tweed waistcoat or a patterned tie, choosing a dog bow tie in a similar fabric creates an effortless visual connection. Imagine the photographs: groom and dog, side by side, both in complementary tweed. It is the kind of detail that guests notice and talk about for years. Many couples order their dog's bow tie at the same time as the groomsmen's accessories, treating their pup as an honorary member of the wedding party.
Bridesmaid colours are another excellent starting point. If your bridesmaids are wearing dusty rose, sage green, or navy, a bow tie in a toning shade creates a cohesive look across the whole party. You can also consider matching your dog's bow tie to the floral arrangements or table settings for an extra layer of coordination. Browse our full bow tie collection to find the shade that complements your palette.
Consider Your Dog's Comfort
No matter how stunning a bow tie looks, it is only a good choice if your dog is happy wearing it. Comfort should always be the top priority, especially on a day when there will be plenty of noise, new people, and excitement.
All Bailey and Coco bow ties are made from lightweight fabric that does not weigh down or irritate your dog's neck. They attach using a simple elastic loop that slides over any collar, making them incredibly easy to put on and take off. There are no fiddly clips, no complicated fastenings, and no risk of the bow tie pulling on your dog's fur. This elastic attachment also means the bow tie moves naturally with your dog, so it stays in place whether they are sitting patiently during the vows or bounding across a field for photographs.
Our best advice is to let your dog wear the bow tie a few times before the wedding day. Pop it on during walks, playtime, or quiet evenings at home so they become completely accustomed to the feel. By the time the wedding arrives, your dog will barely notice it is there. Pairing the bow tie with a collar your dog already knows and loves makes the transition even smoother. Have a look at our guide to the best dog collars for options that work beautifully with bow ties.
Practical Tips for Dogs at Weddings
Having your dog at your wedding is a wonderful idea, but it does require some preparation. Here are the practical steps to make sure the day goes smoothly for everyone, including your four-legged guest of honour.
Before the Big Day
Practice wearing the bow tie. As mentioned above, getting your dog used to their bow tie well in advance is essential. Start with short sessions and gradually increase the time. Pair the bow tie with treats and praise so your dog associates it with positive experiences. By the third or fourth wearing, most dogs are completely unfazed.
Visit the venue if possible. If your wedding venue allows it, take your dog for a visit beforehand. Let them explore the grounds, sniff around, and get comfortable with the environment. A familiar setting will help keep your dog calm and relaxed on the day itself. This is particularly helpful for dogs that can be nervous in new surroundings.
Ensure your dog is well-socialised. A wedding is a busy, noisy event with lots of people, many of whom may want to say hello to your dog. Make sure your pup is comfortable around crowds, loud music, and unfamiliar faces. If your dog is generally sociable and confident, they will likely take the whole thing in their stride. If they tend to be anxious, consider limiting their involvement to the ceremony and photographs, then having them retreat to a quieter space for the reception.
Book a dog-friendly photographer. Not all wedding photographers are experienced with animals, so it is worth mentioning your dog's involvement early in the booking process. A photographer who knows how to capture dogs will be prepared with the right lens, timing, and patience. The results will be well worth it.
On the Day
Designate a dedicated dog handler. This is arguably the most important piece of advice in this entire guide. Choose someone your dog knows and trusts to be responsible for them throughout the day. This person should not be the bride, groom, or anyone with other significant duties. Their job is to keep your dog fed, watered, calm, and looking sharp. Having a dedicated handler means you can focus on your wedding without worrying about where your dog has wandered off to.
Bring supplies. Pack a wedding day bag for your dog that includes water, a portable bowl, their favourite treats, waste bags, a towel (especially useful if the venue has muddy grounds), and a spare bow tie. Yes, a spare. Dogs have a remarkable talent for getting messy at the most inconvenient moments. Having a backup bow tie means you can swap quickly and keep the photos on track.
Plan for the best photographs. The golden hour just before sunset is as flattering for dogs as it is for people. Discuss with your photographer the best time to schedule dedicated dog portraits. Morning light is also excellent for outdoor shots. Keep treats handy for grabbing your dog's attention, and do not worry about perfection. The slightly chaotic, joyful shots often end up being the favourites.
Venue and Guest Considerations
Check the venue's pet policy thoroughly. Not every wedding venue permits dogs, and those that do may have specific rules about where dogs are allowed, whether they need to be on a lead, and where they can toilet. Some venues welcome dogs in outdoor spaces but not inside the main building. Confirm the details well in advance so there are no surprises on the day.
Be mindful of guests with allergies or fears. While your dog may be the friendliest creature alive, some guests may have allergies or a genuine fear of dogs. Let your guests know in advance that a dog will be present, either through a note on the invitation or a message on your wedding website. This gives anyone with concerns the chance to prepare or speak to you about it beforehand.
Have an exit plan. Even the most laid-back dog can become overwhelmed at a wedding. Loud music, fireworks, or an overly enthusiastic child can be too much. Make sure your handler knows the exit plan: a quiet room at the venue, a car with comfortable bedding, or even a trusted friend's nearby home where your dog can decompress if needed. It is better to have a plan and not need it than the other way around.
Wedding Day Styling Ideas
Once you have chosen the perfect bow tie, it is time to think about the overall look. Here are four popular styling approaches that work brilliantly for dogs at weddings.
The Ring Bearer Look
This is the classic choice for dogs with a formal role in the ceremony. Pair a smart bow tie with a high-quality collar in a complementary colour or matching pattern. Add a small ring cushion or pouch attached to the collar, and your dog is ready to walk the aisle with purpose. The key here is simplicity. A bow tie and collar is all you need for an elegant ring bearer look. Choose a collar that sits well and does not bunch up under the bow tie. Our collar collection has plenty of options that pair seamlessly with our bow ties.
The Matching Couple
This is the look that generates the most social media buzz. The idea is simple: match your dog's bow tie to the groom's tie, bow tie, or pocket square as closely as possible. Tweed is particularly effective here because many groomswear brands offer tweed accessories, and the textured fabric photographs beautifully on both humans and dogs. For a Scottish wedding, matching tartan across the wedding party, dog included, creates a wonderfully cohesive look.
The Full Outfit
For couples who want their dog to look truly coordinated, a matching bow tie, collar, and lead in the same pattern makes a powerful statement. This is where Bailey and Coco really shines, because many of our patterns are available across bow ties, collars, leads, and harnesses, making it easy to build a complete matching set. Check out our matching collar and lead sets for inspiration. If your dog walks better in a harness, our harness buying guide will help you find the right fit, and many of our harnesses can be paired with a bow tie on the collar for the best of both worlds.
See the full range of coordinating dog harnesses to find one that matches your wedding colour scheme.
Flower Crown and Bow Tie Combo
This styling option has become increasingly popular for spring and summer weddings, particularly for female dogs (though any dog can carry it off). A fresh or faux flower crown paired with a soft-toned bow tie, such as our Lavender Tweed, creates a romantic, garden-party look that is perfect for outdoor ceremonies. Keep the flower crown lightweight and secure, and make sure your dog is comfortable wearing it before the day. This combination photographs extraordinarily well against green lawns and floral backdrops.
The Bailey and Coco Wedding Edit
We have dressed dogs for hundreds of weddings across the UK, and our collection has been designed with exactly these moments in mind. Here is what makes our bow ties the go-to choice for wedding day styling.
Premium fabrics that photograph beautifully. Our tweeds, tartans, and patterned fabrics have been selected for their texture, colour depth, and visual appeal on camera. Wedding photographers consistently tell us that our bow ties look exceptional in both natural and artificial lighting. The richness of our Heritage Plaid, the subtlety of our Charcoal Tweed, and the softness of our Lavender Tweed all translate beautifully into professional photography.
Comfortable for all-day wear. Wedding days are long, and your dog's bow tie needs to stay comfortable from the morning preparations through to the evening reception. Our lightweight construction and elastic loop attachment mean your dog can wear their bow tie for hours without irritation. The bow tie moves with your dog rather than restricting them, so they can sit, stand, run, and pose naturally.
A complete coordinated look. Because many of our patterns are available across bow ties, collars, leads, and harnesses, you can build a fully coordinated wedding outfit for your dog. A Heritage Plaid bow tie paired with a Heritage Plaid collar and lead creates a look that is polished, intentional, and utterly charming. Browse our full wedding bow tie collection to see every pattern and find the perfect match for your big day.
Accessible pricing from just £6. We believe every dog deserves to look their best on their owner's wedding day, without the price tag becoming an afterthought on an already expensive occasion. Our bow ties start from just £6, making them one of the most affordable and impactful wedding accessories you will buy. Even if you add a matching collar and lead for the complete look, the total investment remains remarkably reasonable.
If your wedding falls during the festive season, you might also want to explore our Christmas dog bow ties for a seasonal twist on your pup's wedding day look.
Frequently Asked Questions
Will a bow tie stay on my dog all day?
Yes, our bow ties are designed to stay securely in place throughout the day. The elastic loop attaches over your dog's collar and holds the bow tie firmly without being tight or uncomfortable. We recommend checking the positioning a couple of times during the day, particularly after your dog has been running or playing, but most owners find the bow tie stays put with minimal adjustment.
What size wedding bow tie does my dog need?
Our bow ties come in sizes to suit all breeds, from Chihuahuas to Great Danes. The elastic loop stretches to fit virtually any collar width. As a general guide, small breeds suit a smaller bow tie for proportion, while larger breeds carry a standard or large bow tie beautifully. If you are unsure, the product pages on our website include sizing guidance and photographs on different breeds for reference.
Can I match my dog's bow tie to my wedding theme?
Absolutely. This is one of the most popular reasons couples choose our bow ties. With patterns ranging from classic tweeds and tartans to softer pastels and bold prints, there is something to complement every wedding colour palette and theme. Many couples send us a swatch or colour reference from their wedding palette, and we are always happy to recommend the closest match from our range.
Should my dog wear a bow tie or a bandana to the wedding?
Both can look wonderful, but for a wedding setting, a bow tie generally offers a smarter, more formal appearance that sits better alongside suits and dresses. Bow ties are also more compact and less likely to get caught, snagged, or dirtied during the day. For very casual outdoor weddings, a bandana can work well, but for most wedding styles and themes, a bow tie is the more polished choice.
How do I keep my dog calm during the ceremony?
Preparation is everything. Practise having your dog sit quietly for short periods in the weeks leading up to the wedding. Use positive reinforcement with treats and calm praise. On the day, make sure your dedicated dog handler has plenty of high-value treats and knows your dog's calming signals. Keep your dog's involvement in the ceremony brief if they tend to get restless, and have a quiet area prepared where they can relax afterwards.
Can puppies wear bow ties to weddings?
Puppies can absolutely wear bow ties, and they look adorable doing so. However, bear in mind that puppies are less predictable than adult dogs. They may chew the bow tie, wriggle out of it, or become overexcited by the crowd. Start practising with the bow tie early, keep their role in the wedding short and sweet, and make sure your handler is prepared for the extra energy. A tired puppy is a good puppy, so a long walk before the ceremony can work wonders.
Do I need a special collar for a wedding bow tie?
No special collar is required. Our bow ties attach to any standard collar via an elastic loop. That said, choosing a collar that complements your dog's bow tie elevates the entire look. A matching tweed collar and bow tie combination looks incredibly smart and intentional. If your dog already has a favourite collar that they are comfortable in, that will work perfectly well, and the bow tie will simply slide on over the top.
